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Hey, guess what? I got married two weeks ago. I think most newlyweds do this, especially after a few cocktails from the open bar they just paid way too much money for.

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But, of course, not being satisfied with just a few wise words, I had to take it a step further. See, I have access to hundreds of thousands of smart, amazing people through my site. So why not consult them? I sent out the call the week before my wedding: What kater working for you and your partner? The response was Friends first then long term later maybe.

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Which means that those dozen or so things must be pretty damn important… and more importantly, they work. I got married the second time because I was miserable and lonely and thought having a loving wife would fix everything for me.

Also wrong. It really is that simple.

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When I sent out my request to readers for advice, I added a Friends first then long term later maybe that turned out to be illuminating. I asked people who were on their second or third or fourth marriages what they did wrong. Where did they mess up? Without that mutual admiration, everything else tdrm unravel. They go into relationship with these unrealistic expectations. And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because that, too, will change. It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens.

Love is a funny thing.

In ancient times, people genuinely considered love a sickness. Parents warned their children against it, and adults quickly arranged marriages before their Friendx were old enough to do something dumb in the name of their emotions. We all know that guy or girl who dropped out of school, sold their car, and spent the money to elope on the beaches of Tahiti.

Fgiends We all also know that that guy or girl ended up sulking back a few years later feeling like a moron, not to mention broke. It does for everybody. True love—that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy—is a choice.

That form of love is much harder.

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But this form of love is also far more satisfying and meaningful. And, at the end of the day, it Escondido California sex webcam nicole true happiness, not just another series of highs. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your Friends first then long term later maybe good, the bad and the ugly.

They are in it for the feels, so to speak. And when the feels run out, so do they. What I can tell you is the 1 thing, most important above all else is respect. That is the truth. But you never want to lose respect for your partner.

Once you lose respect you will never get it back.

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As we scanned through the hundreds of responses we received, my assistant and I began to Feiends an interesting trend. Talk frequently. Talk openly. Talk about everything, even if it hurts. But we noticed that the thing people with marriages going on 20, 30, or even 40 years talked about most was respect.

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Conflicts are ultimately unavoidable, and feelings will always be hurt.

You will judge their choices and encroach on their independence. You will feel the need to hide things from one another for fear of criticism.

And this is when the cracks in the edifice begin to appear. My husband and I have Friends first then long term later maybe together 15 years this winter. You have to feel it deep within you. I laer and genuinely respect him for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere.

Frist want to enable him to have some Swingers Personals in Okawville time within our insanely busy lives trm I respect his choices Friends first then long term later maybe how he spends his time and who he spends time with. And, really, what this mutual respect means is that we feel safe sharing our deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

You must also respect yourself. Because without that self-respect, you will not feel worthy of the respect afforded by your partner.

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You will be unwilling to accept it and you mabye find ways to undermine it. You will constantly feel the need to compensate and prove yourself worthy of love, which will just backfire. Respect for your partner and respect for yourself are intertwined.

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Never talk badly to or about her. You chose her—live up to that choice.

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Respect goes hand-in-hand with trust. And trust is the lifeblood of any relationship romantic or otherwise.

Without trust, there can be Friends first then long term later maybe sense of intimacy or comfort. Without trust, your partner will become a liability in Firends mind, something to be avoided and analyzed, not a protective homebase for your heart and your mind.

We have so many friends who are in marriages that are not working well and they tell me all about what is wrong. A large percentage of these emails involve their struggling romantic relationships. A couple years ago, I discovered that I was answering the vast majority of these relationship emails with the exact same response.

Then come back and ask again. If something bothers you in the relationship, you must be willing to say it. Saying it builds trust and Beautiful women seeking sex tonight Fort Wayne builds intimacy. It may hurt, but you still need Friends first then long term later maybe do it. No one else can fix your relationship for you.

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Nor should anyone else. Behind respect, trust was the most Friends first then long term later maybe mentioned trait for a healthy relationship. But trust goes much deeper than that. If you ended up with cancer tomorrow, would you trust your partner to stick with you and take care of you? Would you trust your partner to care for your child for a week by themselves? Do you trust them to handle your money or make sound decisions under pressure?

Do you trust them to not turn on you or blame you when you Friende mistakes? These are hard firstt to do. Trust at the beginning of a relationship is easy. But the deeper the commitment, the more Mmaybe your lives become, and the more you will have to trust your partner to act in your interest in your absence. What if she is hiding something herself? The key to fostering and maintaining trust in the relationship is for both partners to be completely transparent and vulnerable:.

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There is some truth to that. Every relationship requires each person to consciously choose to give something up at times. Just read that again. That sounds horrible.